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August 2, 2020 By Marisa Moks-Unger

Scrabble Words for Flow

Create a Word Bank from Scrabble

Word Lists from Scrabble
First play the game, then get writing from your curated word list.

Sunday afternoons find my husband, mother-in-law, and I playing Scrabble. This ritual helps us to pass the time during the pandemic. The games usually run one to two hours. We have taken these games to a new level by anticipating them each week, then carefully crafting our word choices. It helps that all three of us are avid readers and come up with a variety of interesting diction. 

Also, the game gets my mother-in-law’s mind off of the local paper’s with its teeming death notices of Covid-19 victims – most from local residential living facilities.  And, she is now interested in the fact that I am using these word lists to write from professionally.

Next, free write for a few. Make a list of the words developed during the game. Then use the list as a springboard to write a creative piece using as many of the words as possible. Play with long and short lines. Add some rhymes. Look for alliteration. Give yourself about 10 minutes. See what images appear.

Then, select a genre or two to carry through. As a theme arises from the free write of the word list, follow the lead. Perhaps a poem rises up. Or, a one-act play. Or, both! Choose one genre knowing that you can come back and create more works from any single topic. 

Now, it’s your turn! If you have a Scrabble game somewhere hidden in a hall closet, it is time to get it out and try your hand at this writing tactic. It employs procrastination by allowing you to blow off writing at first by playing a game. Then, you are rewarded for the time you invested in the game by writing a piece from the words you and others generated.

Here’s to growing your flow,

Marisa

 

Filed Under: #creative tool, Creative Writing, Creativity Tagged With: #creativewriting, #familyfun, #freewrite, #games, #MIL, #mother, #pandemic, #socialdistancing, #sundayfunday, #wordbank

March 21, 2019 By Marisa Moks-Unger

TGIFF – Thank God It’s Friday Flow

Cliché Finds Flow on Friday

Grow flow on Friday with gratitude.

Congratulations, you’ve made it to Friday. And, at the workweek’s end, there is time to find flow. But, where do you go to find flow? First, realize that flow can happen anywhere at anytime. Need proof? Look at this past post on finding flow in a card and party goods store. Simply click right here: https://wewriteitright.com/visit-flow-in-a-party-goods-shop/

How Gratitude Leads the Way

Use grateful eyes to take in the world around you. Then, instead of planning to hit the bars and clubs when the clock strikes 5:00 PM, other options present themselves during these times of pandemic. Why not take a virtual tour a museum? Or, take a walk or bike ride through a park? Or, spend an hour working on a poem, and essay, or a blog post. When you are grateful for the options you have – even if you are working from home amid shutdowns – then that is enough.

Your Turn

Playtime creates greater flow.
Spirographs, Etch-a-Sketch, and Slinkys are just a few ways to re-enter flow through playtime. What was your favorite activity as a child? When was the last time you tried it as an adult?

Think back to grade school, junior high, or middle school. Think about the electives that you took that helped round out your schedule. Did you take dance or music classes? Weight training? Or, perhaps, like me, you did candle making. Whatever it might be, try to reunite your lost teen with your adult self. Take time to write, dance, sing, paint, or play with your Spirograph!  You’ll be glad you did!

Here’s to growing your flow,

Marisa

Filed Under: #creative tool, Alternative Therapy, art Tagged With: #flow, #gratitude, Creativity

February 28, 2019 By Marisa Moks-Unger

Bloom Where Planted for Flow

Find Flow: Prepare to Bloom

Bloom Where planted to create more work.
Bloom where you’re planted to grow your flow.

Sometimes the easiest way to find flow is preparing to bloom. This past month the Grow Your Flow blog has focused on finding self-care routines to nourish our creative souls. Getting ready for new growth works in the simplest ways. First, we care for our physical bodies. We eat nutritious foods. We move our bodies in pleasing ways – like dance or swimming. And, we learn how to deeply relax in places like a yoga mat or a hot salt bath. Next, we care for our feelings. We give ourselves permission to cry, to vent, or to sulk to get over a sticky or harsh situation. Finally, we rejuvenate our minds with exposure to the arts, including childhood crafts, gallery tours, and the like. Then, just as pods are shaken and blown, our creativity goes to seed. We come to a place where we need to honor the stillness that comes pre-project.

Resting in the Soil

Resting in the soil means having the patience to germinate, grow, and bloom where planted. Also, it means putting forth consistent enthusiasm to a creative endeavor. During her recent Oscar award speech for Best Song of the Year for Shallow from A Star is Born, Lady Gaga nailed why it is important to show up passionately to work each day. She said: …All I have to say is this is hard work. I have worked hard for a long time, and it is not about winning but it’s about not giving up….

Your Turn

How do you show up for your creative work? Take out your journal? Set a timer for 15 minutes and write about how you prepare to succeed each day. Do you have a routine you follow? When working on a book, do you have a daily word count you must achieve before you stop writing? If you are an artist, do you require yourself to warm up in a sketchbook? Need a routine? Then, list the names of some people in your field and ask them how they prepare to succeed each day. Give one of them a try!

Here’s to growing your flow,

Marisa

Filed Under: #creative tool, Creativity, self-care, Self-Help Tool, Writing Tips Tagged With: #bloom, #create, #flow, #ladygaga, #passion, #work, Creativity

February 15, 2019 By Marisa Moks-Unger

Music’s Rhythm Rolls in Flow

Roll with Music’s Rhythm for Flow

The Rhythm is gonna get'cha!
Take a music break to find flow through rhythm.

Music’s rhythm is a great self-help tool. Creatives can easily put it into practice. The spontaneous drum beat, rattle shake, or chime ping finds flow. How? There are a few reasons. First, movement is forward reaching. Each sound created resonates into the future. Next, the strumming, tapping, or jiggling is a pleasurable physical sensation. The action moves us outside the current situation. And, the rhythm is comforting. Finally, music and other art forms re-enforce the experience. Bongos patted during an enhanced poetry reading is an example.  A synergy heightens both the drummer and the poet. And, that interaction influences anyone listening in a positive way, too.

The Sound of Music

Having assorted instruments in an office makes it easy to take a music break. Then, when tension builds over a looming deadline, a few minutes spent plucking a juice harp can help. And, of course, a guitar or miniature xylophone, or even the soothing sound of a metronome, can do the trick. The point is to find sounds that feel reassuring. Or, satisfying, to listen to or create.

Your Turn

Over the weekend, take time to dig out your harmonica. Or, find the bugle that is in the attic from marching band in high school. Polish up the instrument. Need to buy one? Look at thrift stores or music shops for used triangles, tambourines, or other small-scale instruments. Put them on a shelf in your office. There they will be at the ready for a spontaneous jam session. Work out any block with ease. Realize that the music literally lifts your vibration internally and externally.  As Gloria Estefan and The Miami Sound Machine reminds us: No way, you can fight it every day/ But no matter what you say/ You know it the rhythm is gonna get’cha…. Want the whole song? Click here to watch after the ad: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-INTCDod2TA

Here’s to growing your flow,

Marisa

 

Filed Under: #creative tool, Alternative Therapy, art, Creativity, Self-Help Tool Tagged With: #chimes, #drums, #flow, #gloriaestefan, #miamisoundmachine, #movement, #music, #rattle, #rhythm, #selfcare, #soothing

February 14, 2019 By Marisa Moks-Unger

Grow Flow With Random Acts of Kindness

Practice the magic of kindness to grow flow.
Kindness comes in a lot of forms. Why not extend the power to help transform someone’s life beyond Valentine’s Day with some magic of your own?

Kindness Creates Space for  Flow

Kindness creates space for flow in a number of ways. First, it makes us feel good to help others. Next, kindness is contagious. It causes a ripple to go from a recipient to recipient. So, we may think we are only helping one person, but in reality the chain reaction goes far beyond anything we can imagine. Finally, performing random acts of kindness (RAKs) enables us to practice being conduits of flow. The more we give without expectation, the more we are open to receive.

Care Moves Beyond Valentine’s Day

In her new book, It’s Not Your Money: How to Live Fully from Diving Abundance, Tosha Silver discusses becoming a source of kindness. She writes: You have to want to let God use you to give. You have to want to be part of the Flow, not only financially, but in every way. There are many ways to give. In turn, it allows us to receive in countless ways, too. Flow is a major theme of all of Silver’s books, seminars, and teachings. To learn more about her offerings, see her website: https://toshasilver.com/

As a former Girl Scout leader, I had the troops craft and deliver valentines to the folks at the Soldiers and Sailors Home where we lived. The veterans were so touched that these youngsters would make them cards and spend time chatting with them. Then, the girls voted to expand the card making and delivery project to include Veteran’s Day, too. The supplies for the craft were simple. And, so were the messages, including Happy Valentine’s Day!  and Thank you for serving! 

Your Turn

Take a clue from Glinda, the Good Witch of the North in the Land of Oz. Get out your (invisible) magic wand and create kindness wherever you go. Find ways to ensure others of their own talents, gifts, and/or goodness. Call or visit an elderly relative. Share a plate of cookies – or a box of Girl Scout Trefoils – with a new neighbor. Let someone go ahead of you in line at the grocery store. Hold the door open for a mother with young children. You get the idea. Go for the Girl Scout motto: Turn a good dead daily! And, then for a moment feel the warm sense of flow that floods your heart. At the end of the day, take 15 minutes to journal about the experience. Consider some of these questions as you write:  Who did you help? How did they react to your kindness? When will you take time to do RAKs again? Hopefully soon!

Here’s to growing your flow,

Marisa

Filed Under: #creative tool, Creative Writing, Creativity, journal writing, Writing Tips Tagged With: #flow, #itsnotyourmoney #toshsilver #divineabundance #kindness #magicwand #journaling #GirlScouts, #RAKs, #valentines

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Stop, Yield, Go to Flow

Flow Found in Stop, Yield, Go

Stop to prep before writing.
Getting prepped to write gives yoiu the chance to see the big picture of a project and to get it right before you write.

The stop, yield, go signal helps vehicles negotiate highways and creatives handle flow. How? As the saying goes, it’s all about timing. Creatives can take a tip from everyday street light fixtures to time their energy and materials organization. This act alone maximizes the potential for ongoing fluid writing experiences. Ever wonder about the tri-colored traffic light’s history? Why were all three needed anyway? See more here to find out: https://www.thestoryoftexas.com/discover/artifacts/three-signal-traffic-light

Stop in the Name of Love

Just as Diana Ross and the Supremes crooned, sometime creatives need to stop in the name of (self-) love for best results. Valid reasons to stop writing include:

  • lacking the data needed to write a report – like statistics
  • finding a person to help fact-check public opinions and their root sources
  • trying to rush putting materials together with an artificial deadline
  • needing interviews to flesh out an article
  • seeking additional physical experiences prior to creating a plot, character, or setting

Furthermore, it is smart to hold off writing when exhausted. Do some mundane office tasks. Take a nap. Or break a lull with these tips posted earlier: https://wewriteitright.com/playtime-helps-adults-enter-flow/

 When to Yield to Flow

Pre-writing helps build flow.
Holy Batman, Robin! Take time to pre-write to get into flow.

So, rested creatives work better. Makes sense. And, preparing facts, figures, and additional media supports creativity, too. However, what if there is a nagging feeling that something else is missing. Here is when warm ups work wonders!

Take time for pre-writing exercises helps to avoid jitters that lead to creative block. Set a timer for 15 minutes. Then, go! If you need a prompt to start, try:

  • what I mean to say is…
  • the resources I still need to create this piece include…
  • the person(s) I can ask for help is (are)…
  • one day I will look back on this and say…
  • the thing that is holding me back is…
  • one more thing…

When It’s Time to Go

Green means go to flow!
When you get the proverbial green light, then go to flow!

The materials are collected. Check. And, the research is complete. Yes? All the nervous angst got thrown down into a spiral notepad. Finally, it’s time to create. If the product is formal, go with an outline, notecards, and other graphic organizers. It ensures accuracy. With a piece that is creative, simply work with circled words or phrases from the quick write during warm ups. The flow will show, because it is time to go.

Here’s to growing your flow,

Marisa

 

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